About Me
- Pearl
- Fat, love to eat, love to sleep, love movies and TV serials especially TVB, love animals especially my cats, love dancing though got poor coordination between my hands and legs, love theatre but no motvation to pursue it seriously, love to ramble yet have a very poor grasp of the English language - like what is happening now.
Favourite links
Wikipedia - use contents with caution
Internet Movie Database (IMDB) - All you need to know about movies
Love HK Film.com - All you need to know about Asian cinema
OchaCream - Shop online for handmade accessories
Birdsnestfern - Shop online for handmade accessories
A Little Bird Told Me - Shop online for handmade accessories
Point2Entertainment - Funn's blog and reviews
2 comments:
Pearl, exactly what did she say or what happened that made you so upset???
But you did touch on one subject that changes friendship. For guys perhaps friends are more important than GF but for girl, I am sorry to say, once they have a BF their own personal self worth and values are somewhat connected to that guy and when you talk to them they become dreamy or very secretive. Worse if when they have children and your entire conversation, which used to be fun (talking abt your fave stars) or serious (world events) suddenly become and centres on one thing only; my son is going to this school, my daughter is learning this, that, whatever. And you feel stupid for even talking abt something else that matters to you like gossip. Married people are no fun to be with and those who just started dating is as bad. Whatever your friend said and I assume your friend is the one in love here, believe me, after some months and she herself feel suffocated with this two people only type of relationship, she will come back to her senses. Or maybe not. Get ready with her and her BF having dinners with you.
dear pp,
1. you are working or studying and all your friends are busy with their own things. at times like these, the most you can get is a few meetings or lunches in one year. you got probs but sometimes you dunwan to share them with friends for some reason or another.
2. your bf is obliged to share your probs with you. provide a listenning ear 24-7. he knows about your deepest secrets and deepest fears. over time you develop emotionally attached to the guy. it upsets you much if he ever fails you. love is a much more intense emotion that friendship, cos it hurts so much more and nourishes so much more.
two points of view. there is just so much a friendship can offer. friends can become lifelong confidants at most. perhaps as close as sisters. but bf is the one with potential to develop to a role of hubby n father of ur kids. by theory of evolution, need i explain the natural choice?
not too sure what transpired to result in you being so upset. hope you are feelin a little better now. perhaps it is time to take things easy. am trying to convince myself to take it easy too if i cant control e circumstances.
it will be a better day tmr...
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